Laura Herde

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3 Steps to Achieving the Success You Desire

As a life & mindset coach for high-achieving, ambitious women, I’ve helped my clients transform their realities into the life of their wildest dreams. How? By supporting them in their mission, helping them realise their goals and giving them an actionable process that takes them to their desires.

You see, babe, goal-setting & achieving success doesn’t have to be hard. In fact: success comes easily when you have a roadmap & you know the right steps to take. 

The problem is, we often get caught up in the big picture & we become overwhelmed by all the things we need to do in order to reach our goals. But lemme tell you sis, all it takes is small steps… one day at a time. Before you jump right in, here’s what you need to know to get started.

Define what success means to you

For some people, success might mean being rich, making lots of money and having financial security. And although I strongly believe that there is nothing wrong with pursuing financial freedom, I define success on my own terms and probably in a way that’s different to many others in society.

Good grades, heaps of money, material things (talking the latest designer clothes and a fancy new car) - all of this means nothing if you are not truly happy with what you are doing on a day-to-day basis. 

Pursuing my passions and doing what I love every single second of my life, the ability to travel and make friends all over the world, helping people transform their lives and making this world a better place... serving a higher purpose... this is what true success means to me. That's my personal definition. 

If you don’t know what success means to you, how do you expect to find it, babe? Forget what society tells you that you *should* be striving for and follow your own path. Define your success. Be true to yourself & your own vision. And then commit to reaching it.

Already know what success is to you? Share it in the comments below, I am more than curious to get to know you better!

Take action on your goals

Ok so babe - now you know what you’re striving for, it’s time to take action! 

Having a goal without taking action will get you nowhere. If you’re familiar with the Law of Attraction, you’ll know aaallll about visualising, journaling & creating vision boards. But babe - taking action is what *actually* calls in your desires and creates your success.

(Pssst. if you’re new to manifestation - you can read my post all about the Law of Attraction here).

And lemme tell you. It’s not the big, bold actions that you need to be taking. It’s the little choices & actions you take every day that will enable you to reach your goals.

‘Cuz willpower doesn't define your success, babe. Your daily habits do. 

You see, your every day actions and behaviors determine the life you will live and the kind of person you will turn into over time.  

And the thing is – the way you choose to spend your time reflects what ultimately matters most to you. Fact.

So, are you prioritising the things you care about? Are you focusing on the steps that will bring you success & fulfilment? Or are you living a life doing things that don’t light you up? Maybe people-pleasing & saying ‘yes’ when actually you mean ‘no’?

Are you avoiding the steps you need to take to achieve your goals?

Only YOU can change your life. It’s up to you to decide where you focus your energy.

Commit to consistency

Taking action doesn’t need to be hard, but it does need to be consistent. 

I truly believe there’s no such thing as 'overnight success'. It simply doesn't exist. Good things take time & consistency is the key.

If you put in the effort every dang day, you’ll build momentum that takes you closer to your long-term goals.

Each small action & every small step will take you where you need to go. Don’t worry about the big picture - it’ll arrive in divine timing. Keep it small & day by day you’ll move closer to your big vision of success.

Still need help realising your goals? As one of my 1:1 or group coaching clients you’ll get access to my high-value resources, techniques & tools to support you on your personal journey to success. Wanna dive a lil deeper into my teachings, minus the commitment? Then join my free masterclass about accelerating your biz & life through female-energy and self-mastery here.

I can’t wait to get to know you, babe!

Love & light,

Laura